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Dear those of you who have your shit together,

2021.09.20 16:13 nousernametoseehere Dear those of you who have your shit together,

I really don’t know how you do it, or how you did it. I am almost thirty-three and still don’t have a grasp on adulthood. I have a good job, I pay my own bills and most people (if they didn’t know anything about my personal life) might assume I am one of you.
I am not.
I have a lot of stored trauma that I am working on releasing. This trauma manifested itself as things, which slowly (or maybe quickly?) took over my life. If I invited you over, you’d surely say What the fuck. It’d be a statement, not a question.
My mom has expressed, countless times, that this wall of things I’ve built around myself was designed to keep people out of my life. I don’t know about that, but maybe she’s right. Sometimes I feel like if I shoveled all the shit right out of my life into a dumpster, I’d be pretty normal. Maybe not, but not sure.
I sit here, on the precipice of turning thirty-three, and just wish I was one of you. I am going through a lot right now, but I am not a victim. I have created my own problems, and I will have to solve them. Quickly. I had told myself that thirty-three was going to be the year I was normal—and it just might be the case although the situation is kind of out of my hands.
You should never minimize your ability to:
Go to work full-time Take care of your family Take care of yourself Take care of your personal matters Keep a minimalist living space
It might not seem like a lot, but some of us struggle to even do one or two of those things.
I don’t know you, but I admire you. Hope I can join the club soon.
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2021.09.20 16:13 WT_28 Is this building on stilts?

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2021.09.20 16:13 Josei-N-Koni Advice on how to see my SO without getting him in trouble?

Long backstory:
My SO (17M) and I (18F) have known each other since he started freshman year of high school, he looked up to me like a mentor because I was good at art and I really fell in love with his art. We lost touch during COVID because he was an online learner, and I dated a guy who then dumped me for another girl, and another childhood friend saw how awful I felt, wanted to stay in touch after I graduated, and sent me an invite to a server. I met back up with my future BF and we started talking again, I started to get feelings because of his talent and kindness, he invited another person who had crush issues, and I confided in solidarity to ask out FBF if she did the same. And FBF surprised the heck out of me by agreeing to date me, I’m his first girlfriend, lmao.
Alright, the issue itself:
We’re on week four, we’ve already talked so much about a lot of things (since we known each other on a surface level, getting into the deeper parts is slightly easy, but also kind of nice to see in him), and at some point I wanna be able to see him again, but I don’t wanna get him in trouble with his family. He lives in a very strict household and he’s not allowed to see any of his friends, and I was thinking of a first face to face date at some point to look forward to in the future.
The things is I’m unable to get a normal steady job (I’m unhealthily depressed because of my own living conditions, but I am working on art commissions and such), and he’s prioritizing school and art as well before he gets a steady job. I’ve been thinking of different plans, but they all may turn out awfully and we don’t want to stir up any suspicions at all whatsoever. I was thinking of the old sneaking out solution, but I really don’t wanna get him into any trouble, since he still loves his family and has absolutely no reason to be in trouble for wanting to socialize outside of school.
Neither of us have any means of transportation and we live really far apart (we’re both bad behind wheels, I walk everywhere and he’d be forced to get a job while in school), so I’m curious as to any other ideas. Should we just wait it all out until we can find a steady future? Or is there anything else we can do to see each other soon?
TL;DR: I want to see my SO again as an official couple, but we have no transportation and his parents are very strict. I need ideas or advice on how to not lose my mind or see him in person.. :,(
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2021.09.20 16:13 Cdscottie Thoughts on the Federal Election today?

Hello all,
Just wondering what everyone's thoughts are on the election today? Any surprises expected here in the province? (St. John's East going red? St. John's-Mount Pearl going Orange again?) Any concerns that you hope the parties will address after being elected?
Tossing out the net to see what you all are hoping or expecting out of this election.
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2021.09.20 16:13 ZoobBot 174146

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2021.09.20 16:13 GenXUser Mike Pompeo headlining October fundraiser for Republican Doug Lamborn

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2021.09.20 16:13 Maldonian iPhone text verification won’t let me in

When I try to log in on my phone, the app tells me I’ll get a text with a security code.
The text comes in, I tap on the alert at the top of my screen, which takes me to my messaging app, and I memorize the code.
Then when I go back to the Arlo app, it starts the process all over again. (And the original code won’t work, only the new one that I can’t see.)
It’s stuck in some kind of loop.
What do I do?
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2021.09.20 16:13 RB26Mustang [WTS] 1970 NOS Zodiac World Time Automatic

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2021.09.20 16:13 calico-clementine Local Reupholsters

Does anyone know of any good local reupholsters? I have an old rocking chair that belonged to my great great grandmother that could use some refinishing and reupholstering on the seat. Thanks in advance.
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2021.09.20 16:13 Official_CKM NEAR Technical Analysis: Is NEAR Headed Towards a Bullish Period?

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2021.09.20 16:13 Trig729 Which jbl partybox should i go for?

I plan on using the speaker outside, So loudness is one of the most important things i want. I find the partybox 100 at 289 euros in my country and the partybox 110 for 389 euros. Which one should i prefer? Is there a big difference in sound quality? The pb 310 is much more over than my budget so i cannot afford it.
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2021.09.20 16:13 Drofdarb23 Hodling and Portfolio Diversity

Hi Everyone -
I’ve recently gotten into crypto and have been trying to absorb as much knowledge/information as I can but am wondering what many of you do/what your strategies are. It would seem there are at least a handful of “popular” or “promising” coins including but not limited to: BTC, ETH, ADA, DOT, XTZ, ALGO & XLM.
I’m looking at this as a long term investment and the plan is DCA and hodl… however a couple things I’m still not sure about:
Is hodling a sound/effective strategy for all coins or just the bigger names like BTC and ETH?
How many different coins do you currently own/invest in? Do you think it’s better to pick 2-3 you really like/believe in or spread out the risk at little with like 5-8 coins?
Just trying to get an idea of how those of you who have been in the crypto world awhile approach things and what’s been successful for you.
Thanks!
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2021.09.20 16:13 WorldNewsinPictures Liberal MP Nicolle Flint Says Australias Decision to Exit The $90 Billion Submarine Deal With France Should be of no Surprise.

Liberal MP Nicolle Flint says Australias decision to exit the $90 billion submarine deal with France should be of no surprise. Since Christian Porter can still vote in Parliament the LNP has no integrity.... MORE -> https://worldnewsinpictures.com/liberal-mp-nicolle-flint-says-australias
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2021.09.20 16:13 tadt93 I said yes in my pajamas...

We just got done having lunch, he looked at me for a solid 5 seconds and then walked over to the entryway closet (where he hid the ring) came back to the dinner table and got down on one knee. I was confused at first and didn't know what was going on. Then I immediately started crying. I sobbed for what felt like an eternity. In one year I will be saying "I do" to the love of my life!!!!
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2021.09.20 16:13 JoeyJoeySiwa i spotted nikki a.s.h. watching the secret life of pets, that's a cool little easter egg

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2021.09.20 16:13 FantasticTruth I met Sadie’s sister in RDO

I was collecting fossil up north by the Colter fast travel abandoned settlement, and stomped upon a random free roam mission, saving a woman from a group of outlaws. Turned out the woman was Sadie’s sister. After I rescued her, she said her sister, the Adler family, is not far from here and asked me to take her there, and I took her to Sadie’s house.
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2021.09.20 16:13 MarvelsGrantMan136 New What If...? Character Poster for Thor

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2021.09.20 16:13 NewRCTID22 In a Scheduling First, Pac-12 and SWAC Plan Home-and-Home Basketball Games

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2021.09.20 16:13 TyYoshi Leah in the upcoming episodes

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2021.09.20 16:13 ricardo52 Trade-In an Account Change

Have I made a huge mistake? My son has the last phone on a VERY old 'family plan' and is now a doctor living in a different city. I've been paying for his phone while he was in med. school.
While visiting him this weekend we took him to a local AT&T store (not sure if corp. or reseller) to do two things:

  1. Transfer the account/billing to his name and request the 25% off "first responder" discount
  2. Upgrade the old plan to Elite and trade in his iPhone 10S for a 13
After over an hour working with the salesman and him conferring with his manager, he told us if we transferred the account to my son we couldn't do the trade-in for 90 days since he'd be considered a new customer. So instead the store did the trade-in order and I paid the $60 taxes on the new 13Pro and were told when the phone comes in to come back to the store and THEN they'll transfer the account to my son.
I've thought about this over the weekend and am now worried that if we transfer the account (effectively closing it and opening a new account) will the monthly credit for the iPhone 13Pro still apply, or am I / he stuck paying off the phone over 36 months? In retrospect, I think we should have transferred billing responsibility to my son THEN changed to the Elite plan and requested the phone upgrade, even if it would require waiting 90 days (and risking that the offer has expired by then).
I'd appreciate input from you AT&T folks watching this sub. Thanks!
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2021.09.20 16:13 Darkortt Tabaxi Monk(Way of the cuteness) meditating in search of Enlightment. 803B.S., Colorized.

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